What Have You Done to Stop Fights in School?
February 21, 2012
Topics: School Discipline;
When I was in school, anytime a fight broke out, all the students in the vicinity would run over to watch, sometimes chanting "Fight! Fight! Fight!" Fights were almost always regarded as entertainment for the masses. If someone tried to break them up, that person was usually told to back off and let them go at it.
Inevitably a teacher would show up and drag the kids to the office, and we would all walk away grumbling that it hadn't lasted longer. That was the standard for ordinary fights.
I remember one occasion in which a student brought a gun to school the day after a fight we had all cheered for. All of a sudden the fight and the cheering took on a completely different tone. I was personally ashamed of myself for egging on a fight, and we were all very scared. For several months we didn't have any fights at our school, and if two kids started shouting at each other, we would break them up.
After a while though, everybody forgot about the kid with the gun. He had been sent off to a school for disturbed kids and nobody ever heard from him again. By the next school year we were back to the same old thing.
A fight requires at least two people. Breaking up a fight usually only takes one person. My guess is your school is the same as mine, with a big crowd of kids standing around watching. What if you stepped in and broke them up? What would happen? Would you be scorned and told to get out of the way? Probably. But what if you refused to budge, and insisted on stopping the fight? What is the worst thing that could happen to you? A bunch of your classmates roll their eyes at you?
How about bullies? How many bullies are there in a given classroom? One? How many victims are there? How many silent witnesses watch it happen without doing anything about it? What would it take for you step in? Why don't you?
Do you have a strategy for dealing with bullies and fights? Do you avoid them? Do you cheer for them? What could you do differently to change the culture at your school?
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#1 from Shane Kramer on February 28, 2012 at 12:11 pm
Everytime in school when fights break out I follow a three step proccess for stopping them. One assess the problem, two alert a teacher, and three stop any harm from happening. This proccess is very useful and effective. Stopping bullying is the first step to stopping fighting.